I was neglected or dismissed
"I was bed bound for three days. I had drains in. I wasn't allowed to sit up, get out of bed or anything. She left my tea, my trolley, at the side of my bed, put my knife and fork on my chest and just walked off and left me."
"When I started, when I was a nursing assistant doing my training, I could spend an hour one to one with my patients on the ward. And now you'd be lucky to have 10 minutes with somebody."
"Before I was diagnosed with my cancer, I was admitted as an emergency... I was treated as a drunk. And everybody said to me, 'Oh, do you drink?' I kept saying 'No, I don't drink.' And then one of the registrar's said to me. 'Are you sure you haven't got a bottle of sherry...read more
"When I first had my breakdown, I went to my GPs. The first GP I saw was very dismissive of me and was like, 'Look, I'll sign you off for two weeks. But everybody has stress problems...it looks like you're gonna have to really think about whether you should be working there.' "
"From my personal experience, just a brush with mental health issues for both me and my family members, [there] seems to be a lack of [the] personal touch at the beginning. With the first contact, like, it's so hard to grab people that are having mental health problems because they...read more
"[When] my mother-in-law was diagnosed with cancer, she was expected to go with the treatment. Because she refused we were just kind of brushed off."
"They found a growth. He had to have a scan and they found this growth and they dismissed it... I had a friend who worked in the hospital... [the] senior night nurse came along, saw his notes, saw this tumor on his spine and called the consultant. Within an hour, he was...read more
"I think what needs addressing is home care in our community. I think it's absolutely shocking... it's three or four visits of 10 to 15 minutes a time. And it's not enough, it's not practical."
"I went through different care homes...they were treated like the lowest of the low. It depends on who's on shift. If you've got a nice care assistant or a nice nurse or a nice manager and they happen to be in, then things are okay. But some people were leaving...read more
"The number of people who are just absolutely desperate for a chat or something just outside of their room...some kind of support while they're in there. Extra activities or just someone to go around and talk to people. I find that, especially with elderly people, they're much more likely to get a...read more
"I've had postnatal depression as well. And especially when I had it with the twins, it took me a year to actually get some help. And to get some medication for it. Because my GP wasn't listening to me and neither was my home visitor."
